Jess Seburn:
Rebel Grief Guide

Grief is an invitation to a party we never wanted to attend.

But if we accept it, we can find community: a group of people who speak our grief language. And there, we meet ourselves on a deeper level: we can be transformed.

Grief and death are often treated like a contagious rash to be avoided at all costs.

Then, the bad thing happens.

We fumble. We freeze. We scramble when we could have prepared. We regret when we could have lived more fully and authentically.

Grievers feel rushed, silenced, or totally alone.
Caregivers carry the weight alone and wonder if they’re doing it all wrong.
The dying are often left out of their own story— not realizing they have agency and can write their own final chapter.
And the curious ones are called morbid and then hushed.

What would it look like to live and grieve on your terms, in community?

I’m Jess! Your Friend at the End, and Rebel Grief Guide.

I help rebel hearts and brave weirdos like you:

Face grief with courage and curiosity (before or after the loss)
Navigate death with meaning and choice
Plan ahead in ways that bring peace and purpose
Create grief-literate communities in your workplace and social circles
Host death parties, workshops, and taboo-busting conversations
Live with zest and authenticity so you can have the full, beautiful life you deserve
You don’t have to grieve by the book.
You don’t have to settle for a standard-issue death.
You don’t have to figure it out alone.

I’ll walk with you through the sacred, spicy, stupid mess of it all.

Together, we’ll make space for grief, death, and a juicy life.