Jess Seburn:
Rebel Grief Guide

What if we actually lived like it’s going to end? (Because it is. Sorry!)

But we don’t. We avoid it. We dance around it. We act like death is a failing and a flaw we should ignore and avoid.

And then death shows up. In the hospital room. At the funeral. In the middle of your workday. It shows up, and most of us have no idea what to do next.

We fumble. We freeze. We scramble when we could have prepared.

Right now, grief and death are treated like a contagious rash.
An unwanted guest. A cringey topic at the table.

  • Caregivers carry the weight alone and wonder if they’re doing it all wrong.

  • The dying are often left out of their own story— not realizing they have agency and can write their own final chapter.

  • Grievers feel rushed, silenced, or totally alone.

  • And the curious ones? They’re told to hush until it’s their turn.

What would it look like to live and grieve on your terms, in community?

I’m Jess—your Friend at the End, and Rebel Grief Guide.

I help rebel hearts and brave weirdos:

  • Face grief (before or after the loss)

  • Navigate death with meaning and choice

  • Plan ahead in ways that bring peace and purpose

  • Host death parties, workshops, and taboo-busting conversations

  • Live with a little more juice, even when life feels hard

    You don’t have to grieve by the book.
    You don’t have to settle for a standard-issue death.
    You don’t have to figure it out alone.

    I’ll walk with you through the sacred, spicy, sometimes stupid mess of it all.

    Together, we’ll make space for grief, death, and juicy living.

Reach out, and let's make this journey one hell of a show.

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